It's been exactly 1 year since my first date with my boyfriend. Any ladies who know the rules can appreciate what I'm about to say: I played by the rules with him. Perfectly. No sex on dates 1-3. after date 4 we went to my house and, well... the next day he sent me flowers. He used to drive 45 miles on a weeknight to see me just for a few hours. I want to marry this man more than I have ever wanted anything in my life. He has eluded to the fact that he "wants me to make babies with me" and we need a sweet garage like our friends when "we grow up". He knows that I won't move in with him until we're (at least) engaged, and he doesn't push the issue, although I'm sure he wants to live with me before we're married. We've been on two vacations together, and we spend as much time together as we can, but we live very far away from each other. A little more than a week ago, I realized that I had asked him to "break up with me if he's not planning on marrying me" because I don't have time to waste. So I told him that I was sorry for putting so much pressure on him and that I'm very happy with the relationship as it is right now. Since then, it has been nothing but weird. He barely texts me. He doesn't answer the phone when I call and never calls me. He had his first boys night in months and I was in his area for work and it's hard for me to drive home at 11pm, so I tried to be a nice cool girlfriend and said "Ok, well, I have work by you tonight, but since you're having a boys night, I'll leave you alone tonight. Have fun", his response: "Ok, great! Thanks, hon." I just had to nicely say I had to go and get off the phone so I didn't cry. I know it's not cool if I give him a hard time about boy's night, but it's not even that. It's that he didn't even care that he wasn't going to see me. Well, that's not going to be happening ANYMORE.